fix(m3): 保留关系记忆并避免立即重复聊天

[问题原因]
- 常规记忆写入会挤出 Chatted 事件，导致关系权重失去长期输入。
- NPC 聊天选伴没有排除最近对象，可能立即重复同一聊天伙伴。

[问题根因]
- 记忆列表只使用单一容量截断策略，没有区分关系记忆和常规记忆。
- 聊天伙伴搜索只按距离选择，没有读取最近聊天记忆。

[修复方案]
- 为关系记忆保留容量，并继续限制总记忆容量。
- 优先选择非最近聊天伙伴；无替代对象时回退到原有选择逻辑。
- 增加记忆保留和重复聊天回归测试。

[影响范围]
- 修改 LivingVillage.Kernel 的 NPC 记忆与聊天伙伴选择。
- 不改变 headless 参数或关系矩阵接口；现有构建与测试流程保持兼容。

1 files changed, 54 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/src/LivingVillage.Kernel.Tests/RelationTests.fs b/src/LivingVillage.Kernel.Tests/RelationTests.fs
index 0f9de83..dc67e6d 100644
--- a/src/LivingVillage.Kernel.Tests/RelationTests.fs
+++ b/src/LivingVillage.Kernel.Tests/RelationTests.fs
@@ -138,3 +138,57 @@ type RelationTests () =
                 if m.[i, j] <> m.[j, i] then Assert.Fail($"matrix must be symmetric at ({i},{j})")
                 if System.Single.IsNaN m.[i, j] then Assert.Fail($"NaN at ({i},{j})")
                 if System.Single.IsInfinity m.[i, j] then Assert.Fail($"infinite at ({i},{j})")
+
+    [<TestMethod>]
+    member _.ChatMemorySurvivesRoutineMemoryChurn () =
+        let initial = [ RelationHarness.chatted 1L 1 ]
+        let full =
+            [ 1 .. Sim.memoryCapacity - 1 ]
+            |> List.fold (fun mem i -> Sim.recordMemory (int64 (i + 1)) Meal mem) initial
+        let retained = Sim.recordMemory (int64 (Sim.memoryCapacity + 1)) Meal full
+        if retained.Length > Sim.memoryCapacity then Assert.Fail("memory exceeds capacity")
+        if not (retained |> List.exists (fun e -> match e.Kind with Chatted _ -> true | _ -> false)) then
+            Assert.Fail("chat memory must survive routine-memory churn")
+
+    [<TestMethod>]
+    member _.NpcAvoidsImmediateRepeatChatPartner () =
+        let needs = { Hunger = 100.0f; Energy = 100.0f; Social = 0.0f; Money = 100.0f }
+        let personality =
+            { Drive = 0.0f
+              Aggression = 0.0f
+              Extraversion = 1.0f
+              Honesty = 0.0f
+              Greed = 0.0f }
+        let plaza = Sim.actionTarget Wander
+        let npc id pos action age effectDone memory =
+            { Id = NpcId id
+              Pos = pos
+              Mind =
+                { Needs = needs
+                  Personality = personality
+                  Action = action
+                  Target = Sim.actionTarget action
+                  ActionAge = age
+                  EffectDone = effectDone
+                  HungerFlagged = false
+                  Memory = memory } }
+        let self = npc 0 plaza Wander Sim.minActionTicks true [ RelationHarness.chatted 0L 1 ]
+        let nearest = npc 1 { X = plaza.X + 10.0f; Y = plaza.Y } Work 0L false []
+        let alternate = npc 2 { X = plaza.X + 20.0f; Y = plaza.Y } Work 0L false []
+        let world =
+            { Tick = 1L
+              Time = 0.0
+              Rng = Rng.ofSeed 55UL
+              Avatar = { Pos = plaza }
+              NoHost = { Reserved = 0UL }
+              Npcs = [| self; nearest; alternate |]
+              Events = [] }
+        let next = Sim.step RelationHarness.zeroInput world
+        match List.tryHead next.Npcs.[0].Mind.Memory with
+        | Some entry ->
+            match entry.Kind with
+            | Chatted(NpcId partner) ->
+                if partner <> 2 then
+                    Assert.Fail("a recent partner must not monopolize the next chat")
+            | kind -> Assert.Fail($"expected a chat memory, got {kind}")
+        | None -> Assert.Fail("expected a chat memory")